Kink & Trauma History
Whether you are new and enthusiastic, curious but cautious, or a long time kinkster wanting support to unpack your experiences, you’re welcome here.
I love supporting people to make sense of their physical, mental and emotional experiences in sexual and non-sexual kink interactions.
It can be hard to differentiate between past harms and current play, at times, particularly if we have a history of unstable, scary, or poorly boundaried adults in our lives. I can support you to clarify what you want, pay attention to your YES, respect your Nos and Maybes. I can offer psychoeducation and help you approach your kink play in a way that supports your transformation and healing from trauma, rather than accidentally reenacting it.
If you have been in more intensive, longer term, or 24/7 style relationships you may benefit from a safe place to unpack relationship dynamics, or get more clarity about how to sustain/evolve your existing connections.